Many people try to become who they are not
before proceeding further i would like to share a story ,
there use to be a boy in my class always talking about his money , girlfriend ( actually make it girlfriends ) , and how popular he was indeed he was popular and always laughing . I never saw him being worried about anything not even exams not even in the subject he use to flunk in , I use to think how lucky he was so lucky until i came across the fact that his parents were getting divorced and he was just trying to run away from the real him , and after listening this I realised that we all in a way try to run away from our real us .
we all should just try self revelation (meaning of self revelation – revelation of ones own thought , feeling and attitudes )
you dont need to make a deliberate attempt you just need to be who you are without creating a wall around you and in some way we all do that , guiding yourself how to behave is ok but obsessing over it and becoming someone different just to avoid the situation is wrong , every time you cannot fight the situation sometimes its necessary to accept it the way it is. long back ago i also use to get conscious about being loud , saying what i wanted to say but after that boys incident i realised its very important to accept the situation otherwise it eats you from inside , so i hope from today onwards every 5 minutes in 24 hours you will take out time to just understand your ownself even if you are going through a rough situation .